Unaccompanied Child Migrants

Many people have asked me recently what’s going on at the border, or with refugees. What they usually really want to know is, what’s going on with unaccompanied child migrants. 

Many people don’t realize that unaccompanied children follow a completely different process than any other immigrants. When a child (under age 18) crosses our southern border without an adult relative, they are first taken into DHS custody. DHS stands for Department of Homeland Security, a law-enforcement agency formed in 2002 in response to 9/11, that includes ICE (Immigration & Customs Enforcement) and CBP (Customs & Border Patrol). DHS is not allowed to detain unaccompanied children for more than three days before transferring them to HHS, the Department of Health and Human Services.

The Office of Refugee Resettlement (ORR) is part of HHS, and is where unaccompanied children go upon release from DHS. ORR is responsible for the safety and care of the children, and for uniting them with family members in the U.S. ORR works with a network of partners including Lutheran Immigration and Refugee Services (LIRS) to accomplish this mission. ORR seeks safe, appropriate places to house children outside of DHS custody, outside of for-profit prisons, while they unite them with their families. More than 85% of these children already have relatives living in the U.S. Part of ORR’s mission is to verify that the adults “claiming” the children are indeed related to them. Communicating with relatives, vetting them, and arranging for transportation that does not send children alone across the country all take time. The current situation is exacerbated by COVID, requiring more space to house the children. If you want to help unaccompanied child migrants, I suggest you check out LIRS.org. 

Why are so many unaccompanied children coming now? Let’s go back to the root causes of migration: climate disaster, economics, and violence. Last fall Honduras and Guatemala were ravaged by two powerful hurricanes within a few weeks of each other. Infrastructure, food, and jobs are all scarce. Combine that with U.S. policies that have historically promoted violence and undermined those countries’ economies, and you are left with people who are desperate to find any opportunity for their children. For the past 50 years, plus hundreds of years before that, U.S. policies in Central America have toppled democratically elected governments, exported violent gangs, destroyed economies, and ravaged the land. That is the real crisis. That is what we need to address. 

There is also a widespread misunderstanding that the southern U.S. border is now open. You’ve probably heard as much in the news. In reality, the border is not open. Our border is almost more closed now than ever before. 

President Biden has not opened the borders. He did, however, put an end to the dangerous and illegal MPP or Remain in Mexico policy, and the U.S. has finally been allowing those particular asylum seekers who have been waiting in dangerous Mexican border towns for as long as two years, to enter, in an orderly way, in limited numbers weekly, at a few ports of entry, after covid testing. The real crisis here is that these people were ever forced to wait in Mexico in the first place, where they were vulnerable to abuse and recruiting by the cartels.

Now let’s talk about Title 42. Title 42 is an obscure public health code that uses covid restraints as an excuse to expel all but the most vulnerable asylum seekers back to Mexico. The previous administration put Title 42 in place, and unfortunately it is still in effect. Because of Title 42 our ports of entry are closed to families that are seeking asylum. So desperate parents who are not allowed entry themselves are sending their children across the border to surrender to agents and unite with family members already living in the U.S.

How can we prevent so many desperate parents from sending their children alone across our borders? We must address the root causes of migration and our country’s responsibility in those root causes. And we must repeal Title 42, allowing families access to ports of entry and granting them due process for their asylum claims, a domestically and internationally recognized human right.

Laredo Update #5

A huge thank you to guest blogger and friend, Siobhan Bertone, for sharing her thoughts and words this week! This is the final update from Laredo. If you want to join this amazing community supporting immigrants at our southern border, I invite you to make some purchases from our wishlist: https://amzn.to/2M6QHQA Current priorities include size 2T and 3T boys clothing and shoes/sandals, and women size 5 and 6 underwear and size small leggings. If you find similar items elsewhere, you’re welcome to ship them to the address on the wish list. Thank you! And now, the last of Siobhan’s updates from Laredo.

The kindness of strangers and a swing set. It’s a long one; hang in there if you will!

I received this sweet photo of some very happy kids on the new swing set this week, from my friend Mike at Holding Institute Community Center. So many of the precious people in my life have helped to provide food, clothing, shoes, medicine, kitchen items, infrastructure, cleaning supplies, and so much more. These little ones walked with their parents often for two or more weeks in order to escape the danger of the lives that they happened to be born into. And now, they are running and playing as they are meant to do, once again. You gave these kids this fabulous gift and I’ll forever be grateful to know that I am surrounded by such kind and wonderful humans. 

Every day in Laredo, every long and hot and tiring day was so very special and humbling. Somehow, Vicki, Sarah, and I found time each day to run to stores to make purchases, in between welcoming buses full of new guests. Covid protocols increased the time it took to get the families registered and settled in to receive clean clothing, a meal, a shower, and the chance to talk to their families to arrange bus or airline tickets. But it all worked out every day. Every night, very late at night, I would add up how much we spent that day from the generosity of those who gave. And every morning, I would wake up to the incredible realization that more money had been sent. And so it went, every day, even after coming home. Today, you all purchased several partition dividers, which will provide families some privacy as they stay in a large space in the shelter. 

I’ll leave you with this: our flight home didn’t go as planned. What should have been a six-hour trip home turned into a day and a half long one. But while we were stuck at the airport waiting for a plane on the first leg of our trip, Vicki, Sarah, and I left to get food for ourselves and for the families who were stranded with us at the tiny airport in Laredo. Joe Barron kindly picked us up and honored our wishes to get food for the families who had no money for food, on what was turning into a very long day. When we returned, there were almost twice as many families as there had been when we left. Incredulously, we divided the food and all of the children were somehow fed. That was probably the closest experience I’ll ever have to understanding the multiplication of fishes and loaves (except it was burgers, chicken nuggets, and apple slices). Teary-eyed parents came to us to say thank you for taking care of their hungry children. They were talking to all of you who fed their kids dinner that evening. We were merely the conduit. I wish all of you could have seen their gratitude. 

We knew we still had more money (which had become a blessed, running theme), and that parents were hungry too, though they wouldn’t say a word as such. So we bought as much as we could from the tiny tienda at the airport, while making sure that others who needed a snack would have something available to buy too. We were down to the last of the money now that had been given by so many and I thought how perfectly it had worked out. And then, just as I was about to pay, a young man approached and held out a one hundred dollar bill and said, “I saw what you were doing, feeding the families here. I want to help.” It covered all but $12. Of course.

Laredo Update #4

Thanks again to guest blogger and awesome friend, Siobhan Bertone! Please enjoy Siobhan’s Laredo Update #4.

As we prepare to leave Holding Institute tomorrow, my heart holds so many feelings. I was able to spend time with old friends and made some new ones, all while having the opportunity to take care of others who have experienced such great difficulty simply because of where they happened to have been born in our great big world. The time together has been so very special, and is yet another reminder to me that we belong to one another. To be a little kinder, to love more, to extend generosity beyond what we believe our capacity for it may be. 

This last minute trip, with my friends who joined me here, turned into something so much bigger than I ever could have anticipated. So many friends, family, and strangers came together to send support to the migrant families passing through this beloved place. I told my friends here that this time here has been like an as-yet-unwritten children’s storybook: a story of waking up each morning to find that the more we had spent the previous day purchasing a variety of items needed, the more money kept coming in. It was a fantastic problem to have! Food, clothing, toys, hygiene items, health, medical and cleaning supplies, upgraded wifi infrastructure, screens that will stream the exact info the families need, and more . . . so many needs that we encountered this week were met . . . by so many of you. Each of you has been a part of these ten days, in more ways than you will ever know. 

I’ll leave you with a few fun pictures of many more purchases, which have impacted the lives of people you will never know.

Laredo Update #3

Thanks again to guest blogger and awesome friend, Siobhan Bertone, for sharing! Please enjoy Siobhan’s Laredo Update #3.

It is so very difficult to find the words that express the gratitude I feel each time I see a little one run by wearing the new little shoes, shorts, or tee-shirts that so many have helped with. The generosity has extended far beyond the few packs of underwear I had thought we’d be able to purchase before I arrived here. Yesterday, we were able to purchase things that don’t seem exciting (at least, not to me!), until the reality of their importance hits. The families can access the wifi currently, from phones, but only while very near to the building that broadcasts it. By next week, the whole campus (as it is called) will have wifi, allowing families to talk with their sponsors to buy their tickets without being crowded together. They will also have privacy to talk with their loved ones from where they came, reassuring them that they are safe. There was enough money to purchase two large-screen TVs that will be placed outdoors, in protected areas, that will stream helpful and necessary information. By next week, the staff and volunteers can focus on providing more care and resources, instead of answering a seemingly never-ending stream of questions. Families will see things such as where they are (most have no idea what city they’ve been left off in), how to buy their tickets to travel to their destination, and info about meals, clean clothing, water, diapers, etc. 

We had another unexpected shopping trip yesterday again too, because so many continue to give. We were able to buy a shopping cart full of little kid shoes as there were almost none left here in the clothing room, and we found these fantastic little bikes, on clearance! We bought three tents to help to provide more shade, as the days are only getting hotter and hotter here. We’ll be over 100 degrees again this weekend. 

That’s all for now. This is all of you, taking care of those who have less than most, who are forgotten by many. There is nothing quite like seeing the metamorphosis of a person once they have been able to bathe, put on clean clothing, have shoes on their feet, and have been fed and cared for. 

 Thank you.

Laredo Update #2

Thanks again to guest blogger and awesome friend, Siobhan Bertone! Please enjoy Siobhan’s Laredo Update #2.

Because of the generosity of so many of our friends, families, and even strangers, who will receive nothing in return (other than the joy of helping others who have less), we were able to make some purchases that are so very wonderful! 

You all bought tables and cleaning supplies—exciting things like big garbage cans, liners, mops, brooms, solutions, etc. that were desperately needed to keep the shelter safe and sanitized with about 100 new guests arriving every day! We also went on a big shopping trip to purchase dozens and dozens of children’s clothing items, plus new underwear for men, women, and children. 

The kids here are young, mostly under 5 years old. After what they have experienced before their arrival here, to see them running around and playing is pure joy. 

So we’ve made sure that there are new playground balls, sidewalk chalk, and ride-on toys. The most exciting purchase yesterday was a swing set! It won’t arrive until after we leave, but I’ll share some pictures when I receive them. I wish I could share photos of happy little ones playing with the new toys, but I want to be respectful of their privacy. 

My friend Sarah arrived Monday evening and she immediately went to work seeing children who weren’t feeling well. We were able to purchase OTC medicines and medical supplies and also items such as prenatal vitamins. 

We still have some funds left and we are meeting to determine other immediate needs, so I’ll share when I know more. 

I don’t have sufficient words to adequately express my gratitude to the many who have given. We’re working on an Amazon wish list and will hopefully be able to share it with you soon. Thank you.

Laredo Update #1

I recently returned from Laredo, TX, where I volunteered at the Holding Institute Community Center Immigrant Shelter with my friend Siobhan Bertone. Siobhan’s community—and even strangers—supported the shelter above and beyond how we had ever hoped. Because Siobhan wrote such beautiful updates about our time in Laredo, I’ve decided (with her permission) to post her updates here rather than writing my own. Welcome and thank you to guest blogger, Siobhan Bertone!

Laredo Update #1, by Siobhan Bertone

After a long, hot, but wonderful day today, I was back at my little Airbnb, showered, and had begun writing a post about the last two days here at the shelter. But just then, a call came in that the shelter had unexpectedly received another 40 guests tonight. 

They are hungry. There are no leftovers from lunch or dinner today. So, with the generosity of our community, friends, family, and strangers to me, these weary, hungry families are going to have dinner tonight. I’m sitting outside the pizza store now, typing this, waiting for the food to be ready. 

You all are the ones who are feeding these families tonight. Your kindness to strangers, your care for people that you will likely never meet is taking care of their most basic of needs tonight. Thank you. I never thought pizza would make me teary eyed. Tonight, it has. Thank you for feeding the hungry. 

Tomorrow, we will hopefully find time to purchase several 8-foot tables and medications. 

More later. Pizzas are ready!